
Sometimes ago there was a world news that a big CEO of a company had to resign for a spying and surveillance scandal. Well the story was in the company for a while .The names of the victims were changing from A to B but the activities were on.Sheena was a contractor in the same company and she was a victim of surveillance too Well alas she had no voice there since she was not an employee. But the question is by removing the CEO will it going to stop. No it will not since it is there in the core of lots of people with different reasons and ulterior motives. The main reasons are human insecurities jealousies egos and survival in a negative way. Insecurities jealousies and egos are three very critical factors of human psychology today in the survival process. No one will accept but it is the same "Habitat and Niche" kind of mentality in the human work place. So today my piece is not about psychology but it is a story of an unknown woman named " Sheena"and some of her work experience.
This is a true story but I will disguise the characters with different names. The story is about the work place and human insecurities ignorance and jealousies and how it affected Sheena's life.
Sheena grew up in a loving family and atmosphere where there was intellect and wisdom, mindfulness and inner growth, spirituality and faith. Most importantly love and kindness.But her life changed after marriage . But they say if you see the world positively any circumstances can become positive and she wanted to do that. But it was not easy.
Sheena found a good job after lots of jobs searches and struggle. She was really happy.
She went to work and found a desk beside a guy name John. John was an old black african male in his sixties spoke in broken english but had lots of friends. The head of the team Zoe was an Italian guy who told Sheena to be careful of John. Sheena did not pay attention since she was eager to learn the work. Management issues arose and the good guy Zoe had to leave and some other Polish lady Kat came and took over. John's behaviour changed drastically. He was a guy who was not scared of any body and with nothing to loose kind of mentality. He was not at all intellectually smart and not wise at all but survived in the corporate world for almost his whole life.
But the question is how. The reason being you do not need intellect nor wisdom to survive in the workplace you just have to know how to play the game in the so called manipulation trade. John was an expert into that.
He had a bad ratings in work never even cared to do the trainings or assessments and used to laugh at people who were doing it. The team of 20 members knew him and kept their distances But what about the people who were outside the team. So John was most of the time not in his desk chit chatting with other people and building relationships. Days went over and Sheena found that John was too much into her business. He was watching everything she was doing, eating and even wearing and making inappropriate comments. Every morning Sheena was going to work and had to sit beside John since he was not moving from his desk. He started stalking her following her making inappropriate comments and started physically coming near her. He was a serial liar.
Since he was in the company for a long time and popular with other team members every body wanted to overlook his behaviour as nothing serious. But it was unbearable for Sheena. John knew the value of making connections with right people so he knew people in the HR too and eventually was very secure . He was treated like a godly figure specially by some minorities like some Philippians spanish, black who just came to US or had a language problem. He was using the race card here and there but he was more racist than any one. He boasted everyday about his connections and how no one could touch him. He was a complete show off and tried to display it.
People were sympathetic towards Sheena but no one was taking any actions and Sheena knew that complaining will make things more worse. So one day Sheena took her own decision and when John came she moved her desk to another empty desk near the head of the team who was a british lady named Ashley. John got furios and his male ego got hurt and he went ballistic. Sheena knew the issue will become very large but she had so much trust and faith in Ashley. So Ashley who took over Kat was from London and was very strict and an exceptionally good human being. She was a lawyer by profession intellectually smart and emotionally intelligent. John could not manipulate her and she knew very well what he was in one glance.
But he had planned his negative manoeuvres. So there was a small team of John's supporters headed by another team honcho went to Ashley with complains about Sheena Their story was like the following
1. Sheena is a racist and insulted John.
2. Sheena is a six (or a thief stealing company datas and other important stuff)
3. Sheena is a slut and going out with men.
4. Sheena is of high risk to the company
John being a good guy was keeping an eye on her and since she moved from her desk the company was of high risk so Ashley should order Sheena to go back in her desk and John will keep an eye on her.
Ashley immediately knew everything and said "No" Sheena will never go back there.
Sheena could breath a sigh of relief and found herself alive and safe again. But John was going ballistic and nuts. But things did not end there in fact it started from there again.
So as the days went by no one was talking to him and he was treated really harshly since Ashley understood his ulterior motives.His reputation was ruined and he was blocked from going to meetings and events and having his favourite free drink and free food.
But John attacked Sheena in different ways he started telling his supporters to keep an eye on Sheena and they were following Sheena even in the rest room since John was an angel to them. John's creepy eyes were following Sheena everywhere and Sheena was feeling disgusted.
Alas again with management reshuffle Ashley had to go back to London and an Arabic lady Leila took over. John found his way again and was elated. Only thing John was moved to another team headed by an Indian guy named Sunny.
This time John was ahead of his trade mark game. Sheena started receiving threats and negative text messages in her mobile. Jealousies and insecurities can take people any where. So one fine morning Sheena received a VOIP message "Her life will be ruined if she do not listen to him with no names" voip messages cannot track the phone number so it was so easy .He wanted to ruin her reputation that was his main goal. Every other day some messages were pouring in her cell phone. Sheena had to go to the police for help. The police came checked the messages and told her to change her number or go to the special investigation team for more result. Sheena lived alone with her two kids. She had no time for any of the nonsense. So she just ignored everything thinking things will fall into places. But no her belief was not true. When restructuring hit the company and lots of people lost their jobs Sheena's name came there too.Sheena some how grabbed a contracting job to sail in the river. Eventually after few months she heard lots of other teams had to leave too And heard John's name was there too. John thought Sheena had to do something with his loss of job since the team head was of Sheena's race.
So again the story started in a new way. John told every one in the company he have a big house in Suffolk and drives a BMW and so on and so forth to influence them. One day early in the morning when Sheena came out of her building saw John in her neighbourhood walking by and watching her with creepy red eyes. She was scared. She knew immediately what was going on. But with the struggles in her job and life Sheena chose to ignore him. Since she realised he can do anything just to survive and no authorities can be a threat to him. Complaining might make things worse.
Sheena found another contracting role in a good company and she thought she will make it this time.
Willie was John's closest friend and John was his mentor and Willie was in the investigation team in Sheena's new workplace. He never had a name and address in the previous work place and used to converse with John only. John was like a god to him. But in the new place he was huffing and puffing and taking decisions. Sheena had an eerie feeling but wanted to believe in the goods. But just like his mentor Willie is a part II of John. Since he had a voice in the company and had a good network he kind of started a campaign against Sheena. Sheena was in surveillance in the company and her reputation was damaged. In fact Sheena was followed in the street too by Willie and his supporters. Willie was watching Sheena whole day from his desk He was paying respect to his mentor. "Sheena was a threat to the company"was the message.
So how John and Willie manipulated the whole scheme.Lies were spreaded about her in the company and it was believed since no one knew the previous history and Sheena was never accepted and believed. Specially the ladies were also against her. She just prayed to god and went to work .
Sheena talked to one of her friend in the contracting company. She was even blocked to talk with her managers since she was a threat to the guys.
She started to lose her interest and self confidence . She became quiet and detached since people already had an impression judgement and verdict against her. No one asked her anything and she was treated negatively. Talking with her was a sin for some guys . When a lie becomes a truth. When a lie is spoken over and over again it becomes a truth. Some people know how to do it and they do it with a plan and mastery. And they are the master manipulators.
So my point is how you believe something is true or false. Don't you do an official investigation with proper facts checking and proofs or you just believe a he said and she said stories. If some one reputation and job is at stake don't you think you should do a thorough investigation with proper authorities. Willie's lies treachery and negativity won at the time period.
Sheena always believed "What ever you will sow today you will reap tomorrow But life has given her so many challenges and struggles . She really believe life is like a river and you just have to accept it and flow with it. The only thing that matter in life is being kind and compassionate to each other and make the moments enjoyable. Hopefully she finds a land .
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