Media Host & Journalism

 

In my every days happy days and sad days busy days and slow days  how I spend the time is my own. I believe everyone have their own little corners little one self which is away from everyone disguised and hidden from the all eyes because no one is more closer to one self than your own self. So we all have hidden faces thoughts and emotions sadness and desires anger and shame all hidden and it goes on and on. That is life. 

My daily activities are pretty simple and I adore them.  I love my own little sweet time with my music favorite shows and clips. Walk in nature and also in the busy streets just floating in this time and move a little nearer in my destined door. 

I do not watch movies may be I am impatient and cannot watch the long prolong view. But  I absolutely love the little clips of comedy and interviews, music video and news clips bios and preaching, little tarot and entertainment, 73 vogue questions to little Stormi Jenner's  patience test , Bourdain's chicken wings to Ramsay's pasta Megan Kelly's sharp tongue to Holly Willoughby's morning laughter I love watching these and this is my private world hidden from everyone. I guess everyone have their private world which is only theirs. In the public places we all have a desire to be accepted by others with the social conditioning and structure how others will accept you is so important and so we all wear a mask to be accepted and impress and follow the norms. Specially when you are older whew you cannot even walk with normal steps. You are so watched and judged. Everybody think they know how the world should be perfect and they forget they only have a limited contract here. And that's how life goes on yada yada . 

Love journalism from an early age. In my favorite visiting places in journalism I have some favorite people whom I adore watching. I love people who sounds very genuine. It is an intuition maybe. So I always go with the persona doesn't matter if they are red or blue or left or right, accepted or hated. It is only about them . Some of my most favorite names at present in the media journalism are Anderson Cooper , George Stephanopoulos , Megan Kelly, Piers Morgan and Holly Willoughby. They are all different have their own belief in red or blue left or right but they are all genuine , controversial and unique. I adore watching them.

Anderson Cooper the host of famous interviews in ABC and his own 360 degree show came from an enriched ancestry Vanderbilt. The story of his mother Gloria Vanderbilt always amazes me. It is not the glitter or glam nor the wealth or riches but her life story is a beautiful painting She endured so much but with so much grace and dignity. It is not when you are at your best or happy places it is when you are tested and suffering excruciating pain how she never lost her grace and dignity that amazes me. Her story sometimes seems similar like Prince Philip story. They both were raised by different family members at an early age and endured an emotional hardship. But both were into glam and wealth. Anderson Cooper  have a contract with a certain media company true and sometimes he have to portray their belief but he is different from others. He never force to get the attentions and he sounds genuine. We can all understand when one have to say something and what one is saying what one have to do for job but still can hold that genuineness and uniqueness of his own. He have it and I like his simplicity and bluntness his speaking skills with ease and his blunt humor. I always enjoy his swaying with the famous past chef Anthony Bourdain and knowing so little of actual food. I really relate sometimes with him when he says "What is there in different types of foods" we have to eat only to exist. I actually relate to that. Not at all a foodie and can survive with a simple fish wrap. Lots of people will not like me having this approach in life. But I am not a foodie and like the same kind of food . So when he said it bluntly in the media it was so enriching. He was also so close to his late mom in each and every of her step and their  book " The rainbow comes and goes" is such a truly enriching novel. Rainbows really comes and goes it is a part of life and we all have to know how to react to that. He lost his father and an older brother and aged much earlier in life took refuge in the wilderness and nature art and travel. Well I enjoy his shows whether a discussion with Stephen Colbert or a funny kicker with Kelly Ripa a serious discussion with Bill Gates or a cheeky comedy with Conan O Brian.  He sounds absolutely genuine and I enjoy watching his shows whether he follows red or blue it doesn't matter. 

Megan Kelly is another of my very favorite anchor and host. She is unique and trust me full of controversies. People always play the I love you and I hate you song with her in her daily life Aggressively attacked in a presidential debate even though the questions were manicured by the media had to switch from red to blue and left to right for a living whew almost lost herselfin the chaos and noise but came back and have an uniqueness about herself. When she speaks she sounds real . She have her own show now and host different topics and married to a wise and good looking author Douglas Brunt . She might not be a sweet next door girl but she is real to me. So the presidential candidate humiliated her since he was feeling threatened in the arena for her boldness and then she was attacked by his supporters too. Later on she speaks candidly for him today and the eyes roll why she is in his side now. Well she speaks on her views on a topic not being in any one side She was thrashed and bashed from NBC for using a word on public platform. Well well that is drama and that is politics. While Lauer survived doing all kind of things for decades she was pushed and out casted for using a word.  She talked bluntly her words were not manicured and she was real.  I absolutely understand the pain she went through after she stood up against Roger Ailes the big honcho of Fox Five. Her reputation was attacked and she lost her identity. A story was written about her which she do not even know. She became a negative character everywhere and it followed her.  She speaks her mind and speak candidly . It is always a pleasure to watch a genuine and blunt speech rather than a manicured and edited script. I also loved the way she conducted a Russian tour with some aggressive questions on the authority. She is super pretty and love  her style too . There has been a movie called" Bombshell" where Charlize Theron played her part and whew she looked exactly like Megan Kelly Thanks to the super talented makeup artist Kazu Hiro. At the end a big fan and admirer of  Megan Kelly                                                                                                                                                                                

George Stephanopoulos is a little different category of journalist in the group of these five. He is an intellect inside and out. He is not aggressive . He is shy and think before he speak. I actually met him in the middle of the street in midtown few times.  He is pretty simple and down to earth. He can absolutely blend with the regular crowds and no one will even notice him and I believe he prefers that. But when he conducts an interview or narrate a particular story he is genuine and it is a pleasure to watch his words and narration and mannerism. He is absolutely genuine. He is a Greek and started his career in political journalism by assisting Michael Dukakis the Massachusetts governor. He is a Columbia grad and  was a leading man in Clinton presidential campaign and as usual he have few controversies his role in the campaign has been described in the movie called " The War Room"  But at the end he is an intellect and was a major part of the white house press in Clinton time. One of his dean in Columbia summed Stephanopoulos in three words funny but he is a combination of " Brain Bucks & Baklava" . He is an intellect and made it and of course as a greek he loves Baklavas. He also love some one who is a total opposite of him. Yes his wife Ali Wentworth. They are so opposite of each other Ali was a  Victoria Secret model absolutely an extrovert and a total noise and anything can come out of her mouth. I wonder some times how they clicked but absolutely adore them maybe the word " Opposite attracts " worked for them . I enjoy watching his interviews doesn't matter which party he supports since he speaks  genuinely  and with so much dignity.

Piers Morgan is another of my very favorite journalist. He is so transparent and genuine and openly speaks his mind. Trust me he is full of controversies for that and whew of course. He was the host of Good Morning Britain and was the star of it. When the whole of Britain was going against a certain political figure he absolutely supported him and was not liked. He never follow the crowds and always stands out. I see the topic he covers sometimes he get into trouble for speaking his mind be it a women issue or race issue Trump issue or Meghan Markle issue a Vegetarian or Meat issue. He is full of controversies.  Well sometimes when the world is speaking and boasting about free speech why it is a controversy when a talk show host is just expressing his own opinion. If you do not like do not watch but you do not have to make a law suit. He is not committing a crime here and there are serious issues and crimes happening around the world. My view on Meghan Markle is pretty simple when Meghan's elderly dad is pleading to talk to her why she just cannot pick up the phone and talk to him instead of doing a huffing and puffing a celebrity interview a lawsuit and so and so forth. The famous interview should be of Meghan and her dad . It is as simple as that. It is not about race or monarchy nor about Piers or media  It is about an individual character and humanity and a daughter.  If some one cannot give compassion and respect to their elderly dad they cannot expect it from others. Well funny it might sound but the ratings of GMB went down after Piers left. The show existed only for him. People like and trust genuine and transparent folks and they cannot be replaced. I enjoy his shows and the interviews he conducts doesn't matter which parties he supports.

Holly Willoughby is another British presenter of the ITV show This Morning. She is not a serious journalist but as soon as you see her you will just like her. Her giggles and smile makes you feel good and happy. She host the show "This morning" with  Phillip Schofield. I enjoy some of the topics and my most favorites are the cooking show which they host with the italian chef Gino D'Acampo . Every time Gino start explaining the recipe with his Italian accent Holly bursts into her giggles and laughter. It is a good show Also their episodes where Holly burst into a giggle with comedian Miriam Margolyes. I just enjoy watching the show because of their attitudes and you simply feel happy and good. I absolutely adore watching Holly and Philip cruise through the show some times covering serious issues and sometimes funny but whatever they do I just like it.

Habitat and Niche and Sheena

Sometimes ago there was a world news that a big CEO of a company had to resign for a spying and surveillance scandal. Well the story was in the company for a while .The names of the victims were changing from A to B but the activities were on.Sheena was a contractor in the same company and she was a victim of surveillance too Well alas she had no voice there since she was not an employee. But the question is by removing the CEO will it going to stop. No it will not since it is there in the core of lots of people with different reasons and ulterior motives. The main reasons are human insecurities jealousies egos and survival in a negative way. Insecurities jealousies and egos are three very critical factors of human psychology today in the survival process. No one will accept but it is the same "Habitat and Niche" kind of mentality in the human work place. So today my piece is not about psychology but it is a story of an unknown woman named " Sheena"and some of her work experience.
This is a true story but I will disguise the characters with different names. The story is about the work place and human insecurities ignorance and jealousies and how it affected Sheena's life.
Sheena grew up in a loving family and atmosphere where there was intellect and wisdom, mindfulness and inner growth, spirituality and faith. Most importantly love and kindness.But her life changed after marriage . But they say if you see the world positively any circumstances can become positive and she wanted to do that. But it was not easy.
Sheena found a good job after lots of jobs searches and struggle. She was really happy.
She went to work and found a desk beside a guy name John. John was an old black african male in his sixties spoke in broken english but had lots of friends. The head of the team Zoe was an Italian guy who told Sheena to be careful of John. Sheena did not pay attention since she was eager to learn the work. Management issues arose and the good guy Zoe had to leave and some other Polish lady Kat came and took over. John's behaviour changed drastically. He was a guy who was not scared of any body and with nothing to loose kind of mentality. He was not at all intellectually smart and not wise at all  but survived in the corporate world for almost his whole life.
But the question is how. The reason being you do not need intellect nor wisdom to survive in the workplace you just have to know how to play the game in the so called manipulation trade. John was an expert into that.
He had a bad ratings in work never even cared to do the trainings or assessments and used to laugh at people who were doing it. The team of 20 members knew him and kept their distances But what about the people who were outside the team. So John was most of the time not in his desk chit chatting with other people and building relationships.  Days went over and Sheena found that John was too much into her business. He was watching everything she was doing, eating and even wearing and making inappropriate comments. Every morning Sheena was going to work and had to sit beside John since he was not moving from his desk. He started stalking her following her making inappropriate comments and started physically coming near her. He was a serial liar.
Since he was in the company for a long time and popular with other team members every body wanted to overlook his behaviour as nothing serious. But it was unbearable for Sheena. John knew the value of making connections with right people so he knew people in the HR too and eventually was very secure . He was treated like a godly figure specially by some minorities like some Philippians spanish, black who just came to US or had a language problem. He was using the race card here and there but he was more racist than any one. He boasted everyday about his connections and how no one could touch him. He was a complete show off and tried to display it.
People were sympathetic towards Sheena but no one was taking any actions and Sheena knew that complaining will make things more worse. So one day Sheena took her own decision and when John came she moved her desk to another empty desk near the head of the team who was a british lady named Ashley. John got furios and his male ego got hurt and he went ballistic. Sheena knew the issue will become very large but she had so much trust and faith in Ashley. So Ashley who took over Kat was from London and was very strict and an exceptionally good human being. She was a lawyer by profession intellectually smart and emotionally intelligent. John could not manipulate her and she knew very well what he was in one glance.
But he had planned his negative manoeuvres. So there was a small team of John's supporters  headed by another team honcho went to Ashley with complains about Sheena Their story was like the following
1. Sheena is a racist and insulted John.
2. Sheena is a six (or a thief stealing company datas and other important stuff)
3. Sheena is a slut and going out with men.
4. Sheena is of high risk to the company
John being a good guy was keeping an eye on her and since she moved from her desk the company was of high risk so Ashley should order Sheena to go back in her desk and John will keep an eye on her.
Ashley immediately knew everything and said "No" Sheena will never go back there.
Sheena could breath a sigh of relief and found herself alive and safe again. But John was going ballistic and nuts. But things did not end there in fact it started from there again.
So as the days went by no one was talking to him and he was treated really harshly since Ashley understood his ulterior motives.His reputation was ruined and he was blocked from going to  meetings and events and having his favourite free drink and free food.
But John attacked Sheena in different ways he started telling his supporters to keep an eye on Sheena and they were following Sheena even in the rest room since John was an angel to them.  John's creepy eyes were following Sheena everywhere and Sheena was feeling disgusted.
Alas again with management reshuffle Ashley had to go back to London and an Arabic lady Leila took over. John found his way again and was elated. Only thing John was moved to another team headed by an Indian guy named Sunny.
This time John was ahead of his trade mark game. Sheena started receiving threats and negative text messages in her mobile. Jealousies and insecurities can take people any where. So one fine morning Sheena received a VOIP message "Her life will be ruined if she do not listen to him with no names" voip messages cannot track the phone number so it was so easy .He wanted to ruin her reputation that was his main goal. Every other day some messages were pouring in her cell phone. Sheena had to go to the police for help. The police came checked the messages and told her to change her number or go to the special investigation team for more result. Sheena lived alone with her two kids. She had no time for any of the nonsense. So she just ignored everything thinking things will fall into places. But no her belief was not true. When restructuring hit the company and lots of people lost their jobs Sheena's name came there too.Sheena some how grabbed a contracting job to sail in the river. Eventually after few months she heard lots of other teams had to leave too And heard John's name was there too. John thought Sheena had to do something with his loss of job since the team head was of Sheena's race.
So again the story started in a new way. John told every one in the company he have a big house in Suffolk and drives a BMW and so on and so forth to influence them. One day early in the morning when Sheena came out of her building saw John in her neighbourhood walking by and watching her with creepy red eyes. She was scared. She knew immediately what was going on. But with the struggles in her job and life Sheena chose to ignore him. Since she realised he can do anything just to survive and no authorities can be a threat to him. Complaining might make things worse.
Sheena found another contracting role in a good company and she thought she will make it this time.
Willie was John's closest friend and John was his mentor and Willie was in the investigation team in Sheena's new workplace. He never had a name and address in the previous work place and used to converse with John only. John was like a god to him. But in the new place he was huffing and puffing and taking decisions. Sheena had an eerie feeling but wanted to believe in the goods. But just like his mentor Willie is a part II of John. Since he had a voice in the company and had a good network  he kind of started a campaign against Sheena. Sheena was in surveillance in the company and her reputation was damaged. In fact Sheena was followed in the street too by Willie and his supporters. Willie was watching Sheena whole day from his desk He was paying respect to his mentor. "Sheena was a threat to the company"was the message.
So how John and Willie manipulated the whole scheme.Lies were spreaded about her in the company and it was believed since no one knew the previous history and Sheena was never accepted and believed. Specially the ladies were also against her. She just prayed to god and went to work .
Sheena talked to one of her friend in the contracting company. She was even blocked to talk with her managers since she was a threat to the guys.
She started to lose her interest and self confidence . She became quiet and detached since people already had an impression judgement and verdict against her. No one asked her anything and she was treated negatively. Talking with her was a sin for some guys . When a lie becomes a truth. When a lie is spoken over and over again it becomes a truth. Some people know how to do it and they do it with a plan and mastery. And they are the master manipulators.
So my point is how you believe something is true or false. Don't you do an official investigation with proper facts checking and proofs or you just believe a he said and she said stories. If some one reputation and job is at stake don't you think you should do a thorough investigation with proper authorities. Willie's lies treachery and negativity won at the time period.
Sheena always believed "What ever you will sow today you will reap tomorrow But life has given her so many challenges and struggles . She really believe life is like a river and you just have to accept it and flow with it. The only thing that matter in life is being kind and compassionate to each other and make the moments enjoyable. Hopefully she finds a land .

Moment

After a long time I am chit chatting in my blog again. It is a good feeling and also getting tempted to write often . But sometimes feeling like Rip Van Winkle the guy who fell asleep in the Catskill mountain for twenty long years and woke up to find  so many changes. But changes are part and parcels of life as it moves on and the river flows . We need to adapt to the changes and only have to think about the present moment. The past is gone and the future is just a thought. Whatever we have is the present moment and if we can make that happy that is all we need. So enjoy the simple things in your life and enjoy the moment. Because tomorrow is just a virtual reality.

Ethics and Integrity

Ethics and Integrity are a subject matter of every organisation now days. They are not a skill and they cannot be learned through a webex or taking an assessment. This is your character. The traits comes from your internal growth or wisdom. Well we can say that the traits are implanted in you from the way you are raised in your childhood the values and principles implanted by your family. So Integrity Ethics they come from your family background and not with an educational certificate. Education can polish them up. With Education you can make powerpoint presentation of the subject or a webinar. Inner growth or wisdom are completely your own it is not a skill nor it can be taught.
So we see some people with integrity who know the value of ethics and some are struggling to learn it in books and online. Compliance and ethics are interlinked in the sense that in an organisation if
people are ethical which is really rare then work become less and simple. But most of the time it is the opposite. Even though people are trying to find out the flaws and corruptions in other countries and in other people if these people comes under the microscope then it might become a different story. But alas they are so blind to see that.
In John Wooden words" It is better to be concerned with your character than reputation . Character is your strength your integrity it is who you are while reputation is what other people think of you it comes from their insecurities and ignorance" You cannot change others .
Everybody's experience in life is different with my experience I see people with values and integrity are silently tolerating the pain and anguish of the other group who are shamelessly beating the drums of their insecurities and arrogance without even having a little bit of realisation.


Ethics is not only a simple word nor it is a skill that can be taught or delivered.
It is simply a character and traits of this character comes from your own wisdom. Ethics cannot be taught nor it can be learned in one webex. But here in every organisation people gives priorities to the subjects and treat it like a skill. Ethics comes from  your internal growth and from several factors. 
So we can ask how ethics and integrities are higher on some people and none in others. 
It comes from your values and principles, how you are raised and it starts from your parental upbringings. It does not belong to people with higher educational certificates nor to people with lavish lifestyle. It is the internal growth of a human being and it completely belong to the individual.
Having a training on the subject or giving a lecture on it will not strengthen it. Ethics and compliance are related like rights and wrong. So we can say if your organisation have really ethical people which is rare you do not have to be very cautious. But alas that is really rare . Even though we are very actively trying to find faults in other countries other race other individual in the name of compliance and investigation if the same person comes under the microscope he will have multiple discrepancies.
But it is very normal and natural none want to see that. Moral integrity and ethics are not teachable nor can be learned by doing an assessment it is the values and principles you have while you are raised. Family background and not educational background is helpful here. Education can polish it up but cannot create it. You learn what you see while growing up as a child. That is why we can see lots of people with less privileges have integrity and honesty while the richer one needs training on that through white paper or webex. 
Since everybody's personal experience is different in life I can say in my work experience I have seen people with integrity are quiet now days tolerating the pain anguish and the atrocities quietly. Their values and principles are not allowing them to be aggressively shameless and insecure . It is a shame and facade that the other force is so ignorant that they do not even a grasp the idea of the reality. They are beating the drums and music of their insecurities and ignorance lies and treachery with a big smile and gala. 

Let You Rest In Peace

It was a cloudy and rainy Tuesday.I finished my work at regular schedule and started walking towards broadway and 34th street for some shopping.It was raining like cats and dogs and my umbrella was not staying properly.As soon as I crossed fifth ave in front of Empire State Building I saw an unusual scene.I saw a pair of new black Michael Jordan snicker in front of me and in one second I saw a well dressed human body lying at the sidewalk totally shattered and splattered all over.My mind stopped for a while and I thought it was not real.I thought it was a plastic doll people sometimes keep in front of their stores and somehow it got messed up.Alas my thoughts were not true.Slowly people started to gather and everybodys face were in shock.I stood there and saw a dark gentleman came running and held an umbrella over the dead soul.Then the cops and ambulance and the firefighters all came together and blocked the whole street and started to cover the body and took it to the ambulance.The crowds were whispering they heard a big explosive sound and did not know where it came from.Someone jumped from the highrise again to escape the pain and agony of life.My body shivered and mind cried for the poor soul and I prayed that he gets the peace he was looking for in life.I was feeling dizzy and cold.My friend called me and I felt little better by talking to him and venting out my agony.
Next morning I went to work and tried to forget it but it was covering my mind.Then I saw the Daily News and New York Post and Metro.It was all over the news.Someone jumped from the highrise again.He was Cameron Dabaghi a 21 years old young Yale student.He came from a elite family of Texas.His both parents were doctors and lived in a gated elite Austin(TX) neighbourhood.All his siblings were Duke or Yale graduates.He was a honor student in his third year pursuing east asian studies.He was an extremely good tennis player.He had no problems or stress and nobody knew why he did it.People had their own opinions that either he was not brave enough to deal with problems of life or he was under lots of stress from studies.But whatever it was the poor young soul was gone.He had his whole life in front of him which he ended for the momentary pain.Young souls are very sensitive to deal the harsh realities of the world.Specially when someone grow up with a silver spoon.His unbearable pain made him to end his beautiful life.Maybe he dreamt of being more successful or maybe some girl broke his sensitive young heart.
We all give our own opinions of what is good or bad and what is right or wrong thinking that it is the universal opinion but sometimes life's pain becomes unbearable and intolerable.Just like different opinions some people can tolerate it and some people cannot.My heart goes out to the family who are going through the incruciable pain by losing their loved one.I pray to the almighty that let the young soul rest in peace forever.
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'A Real Superman'

After a longtime I am writing my blog.Just the other day I remembered a miraculous human life story which touched everybodys heart more it unfolded years ago.We get angry, depressed annoyed frustated with our lives for so many little reasons but if we take a little time and think what this person went through in life we will understand that we can be more tolerant and patient towards every walk of our lives.
Christopher Reeve was born in Newyork city to a novelist father Franklin Reeve and a journalist mother Barbara Pitney.He was born into scholarly and intellectual environment.His grand father was the CEO of Prudential Financial for over twenty five years and was a descendent from Elias Boudinot(President of continental congress and director of US mint)Reeves mother was the grandaughter of Mahlon Pitney(US supreme court justice)His parents divorced and Christopher had to move to Princeton NJ with his mother and brother.His mother Barbara Pitney later married a stockbroker Tristam B Jhonson.Reeve always had a passion for acting from school.But he was outstanding in academics and sports also.Christopher Reeve joined Cornell University in the theatre department.Acting became his passion and later on he received a letter from Stark Hesseltine a big name in entertainment agencies who earlier has discovered actors like Robert Redford and Susan Sarandon.After a long walk in the television and movies and broadway theatre he got chance as a lead actor(Clark)in the big budget movie Superman.After that there was no stopping for him.Christopher Reeve was married to Gae Exton and had two kids Mathew and Alexandra but later on they divorced and Christopher Reeve was married to Dana Morosini a cabaret singer.Reeve was thorough athelete and was involved in sailing, scuba diving, skiing, aviation, windsurfing, cycling, gliding, parasailing, mountain climbing, baseball, tennis.And later on he took his interest in horse riding.
One fine morning of May 1995 Reeve had to go to the competition in Commonwealth Dressage and Combined Training Association finals at the Commonwealth Park equestrian center in Culpeper, Virginia where Reeve reached early and was training with his favorite horse Buck.Christopher was happy with his personal and professional life.Dana gave birth to their first child and they were so much in love with each other.Buck was fine from the morning but as soon the riding started and they were to cross the fence Buck had a refusal.Reeve's tall and atheletic frame hit the ground shattering his spinal chord and the vertebra.Reeve went to a coma and woke up only to find out that he became a quadriplegic.Barbara Pitney went to the hospital to see her son and wanted the doctors to let him stop breath.Living a life as a quadriplegic is not easy for anybody in this earth.Christopher Reeve himself thought of suicide and asked the permission of Dana to let him go.Dana's answer was that she will support any decision he will make but her love for him will never die doesnt matter whatever way he lives.We see so many romantic movies so many news of lovestories but Reeve's and Danas lovestory was so real so special that it will be remembered for ever and ever.Reeve changed his decision and lived a struggling life but never let other know that he was suffering. Dana was always at his side with a beautiful smile.Their love was so strong and so sweet that people from all parts of the world poured them their blessing.He contributed his money and words for the stem cell research.In 2002, the Christopher and Dana Reeve Paralysis Resource Center, a federal government facility created through a Centers for Disease Control and Prevention non-compete grant was opened in New Jersey.Reeve died of cardiac arrest from a reaction of an antibiotic in 2004.Dana who never smoked a cigarette in her life was diagnosed with lung cancer and died in 2006.They are survived their son William.
Life sometimes brings lots of challenges and hardship but all your hardship and challenges become easy if you have someone to love and someone who loves you.It is not necessary that all love stories have to be defined in a particular relatioship like marriage.But if it is,the more better.But it is the feeling which you will understand from afar and want to walk the extra miles by keeping all your struggles behind.Another thing which we learned from Reeves story is that the path of your journey is not always rosy but you can make it with your own mentality and own temperment.You have to be happy wise and confident yourself first then only you will be able to see the good things in your darkest hour and will be able to distribute the happiness among others.Otherwise you will lose your happiest time also in stress and detrimental thoughts.
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Jaycee's Walk

It was an early morning of sunshine in October 1991 the eleven year old Jaycee was getting ready to go to school.Her beautiful blond hair was tied in a pony tail and she had a pink wind breaker and

white snickers as she was heading up the steep hilly road of Tahoe ,California to catch her school bus.Her mother already left for work and her stepfather was watching her from the garage till the bus come.But suddenly a car came and someone grabbed Jaycee and pushed her inside and left and the whole little town of Jaycee became upside down.Jaycee was kidnapped by an unknown person in an unknown world which no one knew.Her parents world changed and they just lived beacause they couldn't die.Her little sister Shana just didn't know anything except for not seeing Jaycee anymore.After eighteen years she has been found with two kids one is eleven the other is fifteen.Philip Garido kidnapped Jaycee and held her captive for somany years mentally and physically.He raped her and had two kids from her brainwashed her in such a way that she never tried to escape the prison of her captor.After eighteen years when she was found and the whole world is making a happy homecoming of Jaycee we just have to take few minutes to think that have we found the same Jaycee who was lost eighteen years ago or a totally a new person?Her parents found a solace by getting back Jaycee physically.But they lost her childhood and youth which they will never get back again

In Asia specially in countries like India there is a ritual of arranged marriages.Because of economy and social culture girls are treated differently specially at certain age when the whole society and family become concerned for the girls marriage.Families go through matrimonial news and friends to find a groom for the girl.Astrology,race,caste jobs they try to find a combo in the groom except the character which definitely stays unknown untill they know the person.Girls get married at an early age and try to get blended with the husband family.Sometimes they do and sometimes they dont.But the society are more fro towards girls who accept the husband family despite problems.After marriage they cannot return to their parent's homes and accept their new life as their destiny.Girls get lost in their journey of life and try to fit into a new identity with a new personality as a new person.Social culture become the captor of the real girl and try to create someone new in her.There are so many Jaycees in this world who has been captivated at an early age by society, culture,religion,and so many other things.But atleast Jaycee Duggard found her real home atlast to her long lost family and hopefully the recovery process will bring them more closer.